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The Perfect Christmas

Posted by on October 2, 2015 in missions, Pray, Uncategorized | 2 comments

Photo © City of Mount Dora

Photo © City of Mount Dora

“Mom, I’m thinking about going to ______________ [a closed country where missionaries go in under other platforms such as business or teaching] over Christmas break.”

“What?” “How?!” “With whom?”

This text exchange between our youngest daughter and me happened last night. But what Melanie (daughter #4) didn’t know was that this was supposed to be the perfect Christmas. The Christmas I’d waited for. The Christmas where all six kids (including one by marriage) would be home. The one where daughter and son-in-love #1 could join us from South Carolina. The one where daughter #2 would return from her mission in Brazil, where one-and-only son would return from his new job in California. The one where daughters #3 and #4 would have almost a month’s break from college. The one where my mom might join us all the way from Ohio. The perfect Christmas.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Elliott

The perfect Christmas. A fully-decorated house. At least two trees. Cookies filling the pantry, tables groaning with other food. The traditional fast-food Christmas Eve supper followed by the candlelight Christmas Eve service.

The perfect Christmas. No, we wouldn’t act out the Nativity story as we’d done when the kids were small, but we’d read it from Luke 2 before we opened the presents. We’d eat our traditional Christmas kringler (a Danish coffee cake) and sing “Happy Birthday to Jesus” just as we’ve done every year in, well, forever.

“Mom, I was encouraging another girl to go. I said, ‘What’s stopping you from going?’ And then she turned around and asked me, ‘What’s stopping you from going?’

“Mom, I really think God is calling me to go.”

My kids have come to expect my answer to almost any big question to run along the lines of “We’ll pray about it,” and “Do whatever God wants you to do.” But the deadline for this decision? Midnight, the same night she called me. So yes, I said the words—but did I mean them?

As I prayed, an unexpected peace filled my heart. God already said, “Go and tell.” For our family, it’s never been a question of “if,” but of “when.” And my long-ago prayers that God would use our family in missions are still being answered.

Who am I to stand in the way of His work for the sake of a few days of Christmas joy? Who am I to consider my own interests above those of Jesus Christ?                           Delighted

Melanie submitted her application last night at 11:59.

Of course, our Christmas won’t be perfect this or any year. Tempers will flare, the wrapping paper will crumple, the dog’s tail will shatter some ornaments, and some of the presents will be returned. But this year, as we rest in the knowledge that our youngest said “Yes” to the unexpected, “Yes” to the challenge, and “Yes” to the opportunity to take the gospel to the ends of the earth, we’ll celebrate.

And I’m pretty sure we’ll have that perfect Christmas after all.


Melanie has a short time to raise the several thousand dollars needed for her ten-day trip. One of the ways she hopes to do this is by creating and painting graphic art pieces like those shown on the right side of this post. She can customize verse or quote, color, and design as desired.

For information and ordering and/or to be added to her prayer team, send me a note through the “contact” link above, and I’ll forward it to her. Thank you!

For His glory,


P.S. An out-of-town trip delayed my posting of the winner of the book drawing from my most recent post. Doris H,  you won a copy of The Stress Cure by Linda Evans Shepherd along with one other book. Congratulations, and I’ll email you some options!


  1. Train up a child…and get out of the way! Great job Marth and Tom. Indeed, God is using your family.

    • Amen. And thank you! We are grateful.


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