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READ: Words of Comfort for Times of Loss by Cecil Murphey and Liz Allison (Blog Tour–and Two Opportunities to Win!)

Posted by on March 30, 2010 in Cecil Murphey, Read, Words of Comfort for Times of Loss | 5 comments

Harvest House Publishers
Release Date: 1/1/10
ISBN: 978-0-7369-2429-0
Retail: $10.99
Hardcover: 6X6

For every time you’ve wished for
the right words to say…

Today, I feature a new book by my friend and mentor Cec Murphey and his coauthor Liz Allison. Like most of you, I’m no stranger to loss. The first three funerals I heard my pastor husband preach were those of his father, grandfather, and our premature son. We learned that our times of grief prepared us to minister to others who hurt. In the same way, Cecil Murphey and Liz Allison have allowed God to turn their pain into a source of healing and hope. BONUS: read to the end to learn how you can enter the Grand Prize Giveaway—and a special article on ways to deal with grief.

About the Book:

Through great personal loss, authors Cecil Murphey and Liz Allison have gained insight to share with others who are going through uncertainty, depression, and loneliness after losing a loved one. They also offer advice for those comforting someone who is grieving.

Among comforting paintings by artist Michal Sparks, brief stories, personal experiences, and prayers offer a meaningful path toward healing for readers when they:

• feel alone and lost in their grief and want to reconnect with others and to life
• seek to make sense of their loss alongside their sense of faith, purpose, and God
• want to honor their loved one without clinging to the past in unhealthy ways

Readers are given gentle permission to grapple with doubt, seek peace, and reflect on loss in their own way without judgment and with understanding and hope. A perfect gift for a loved one dealing with loss and grief.

About the Authors:

Liz Allison was married to NASCAR driver Davey Allison until his tragic death in 1993. Widowed at 28 with two young children to raise, Liz faced the long journey of pain, loss, and grief with great faith. Committed to encouraging others, she returned to her work in TV reporting, has published eight books, and hosts a weekly radio show. Please visit www.lizallison.com

Cecil Murphey is an international speaker and bestselling author who has written more than 100 books, including New York Times bestseller 90 Minutes in Heaven (with Don Piper). No stranger himself to loss and grief, Cecil has served as a pastor and hospital chaplain for many years, and through his ministry and books he has brought hope and encouragement to countless people around the world. Please visit www.cecilmurphey.com

Why We Write About Loss (personal letters to readers from the introduction to Words of Comfort for Times of Loss):

On the morning of July 12, 1992, my husband, Davey, left home like any other morning—he kissed my forehead and hugged our kids.That afternoon I answered a knock at the door, sensing something wasn’t quite right. When I glimpsed the faces of Davey’s two best friends—they didn’t have to speak—the looks on their faces said it all.

That day, after lunch with his race team, Davey had hopped into his helicopter and taken an unplanned trip to the nearby Talladega Superspeedway to watch a buddy practice. Attempting to land in the infield, he had lost control of his helicopter and crashed. Although paramedics airlifted Davey to a Birmingham hospital, sixteen hours later he was pronounced dead.

Immediately following Davey’s death, I had to work through my grief enough to plan his funeral and make hundreds of small-but-significant decisions, all while maintaining the time and energy to care for our two young children, ages one and three. Well-wishing friends hovered around me and frequently asked, “What can I do for you?

Most of the time, I could only respond with a blank stare. Looking back, my friends could have done many things for me, but they didn’t know what to do, and I didn’t know what to tell them.

I hope the insights I have gained during the aftermath of Davey’s death will help you as you struggle with your own grief.

—Liz

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Two weeks after my father suffered a ministroke, a massive stroke took his life. On the day of his funeral, my older brother, Ray, died of cancer. Over the next eighteen months, I lost two brothers-in-law and my mother.

On the Sunday after Dad’s and Ray’s funerals, a parishioner rushed up to me, hugged me, and said, “Pastor, I heard about the deaths. Were they saved?”

I honestly don’t remember what I answered, but I wanted to shout, “Does it matter right now? I hurt. I’m so filled with pain that I’m not sure I can handle the worship service today!”

In 2007, our house burned down. Our son-in-law, Alan, died in the fire. The next day, a neighbor pulled up in front of our burned house, got out of his car, and started to look around. “Where did he die?” he asked.

Through the years, I’ve met many like those two people. Maybe they didn’t know what to say. Perhaps they were so focused on what they cared about that they were unaware of my pain. Instead of helping me, those comments made me feel even worse. What I needed was compassion. I didn’t get that from either of them, but I can offer it to you.

That’s why we’ve written this book.

—Cec

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Little Joys
You’re Not Alone
One Simple Thing
Accepting Help
Make It Go Away
Why Did You Leave Me?
If Only I Had
What’s Wrong With Self-pity?
Perfect Grieving
Am I Crazy?
Material Possessions
Facing Those Special Days


It seems appropriate that a book about comfort would offer a comforting prize. Comment on the blog (I can’t draw names from Facebook commenters as that violates Facebook rules) before April 9 and I’ll draw one winner who will receive a free copy of Words of Comfort for Times of Loss. In addition, I’ll send the winner’s name to KCW Communications (coordinators for this blog tour) to enter a drawing for a Grand Prize Giveaway that includes:

Words of Comfort for Times of Loss
Heaven Is Real

Gift Edition, 90 Minutes in Heaven
Journal
Pens
Potato soup
Oyster crackers
Dove silky smooth milk chocolate
Dove silky smooth dark chocolate
Ultra-plush spa socks
Large gel eye mask

This delightful package is designed especially for someone going through a difficult time. The winner can keep or pass along to someone who could use the pick-me-up.

BONUS: Check out the authors’ tips on how to deal with grief in this article posted in the Freebies section of my website.

5 Comments

  1. My son’s father in law recently passed away. This would be good for his wife.

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  2. Thanks, Linda. I can think of many people who would benefit from this book.

  3. This sounds like a wonderful book to those who have lost someone recently and to us that want to comfort them.

  4. Thank you, Marti, for posting this on your blog. I pray that God will put this gift into the hands that need it the most right now. I pray for that person who may be in the midst of grief and sorrow at this very moment, needing a hug from someone who will come alongside and allow them to weep…and may God provide that comfort that only He can give. Amen

  5. Thanks, Pam. What a beautiful prayer–and the attitude we should all seek to have.

    I’m continuing to remember you and your son and trusting that God is surrounding you both with His love and care.

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