Snapshots of Dementia: How Firm Thy Friendship
by Andrew Pieper The silver sousaphone shone like a mirror in the Saturday afternoon sun as the band member high-stepped out of formation to dot the i with an exaggerated bow in the iconic Script Ohio, one of college football’s greatest traditions. The 100,000-plus fans in attendance roared their approval, and my dad smiled, enjoying once again the grand spectacle that is Ohio State football. Arriving in Ohio Friday afternoon, we drove an hour north of Columbus to visit the famous Ohio State Reformatory, which not only had served as a real prison until 1990 but also as the filming location for The Shawshank Redemption among other Hollywood movies. The chairlift hummed as it carried me—along with my dad in his wheelchair—up the side of the stairs. The wheelchair was a new addition to our travels. My dad is still able to walk with a walker, but he does so slowly and often with great pain. We decided to borrow a wheelchair for this trip, which made the whole experience much easier for both of us. Once inside, I purchased tickets for a guided tour. These tours are public and quite popular, often with up to forty people in attendance. But once our guide saw my dad in his wheelchair, he instructed the front desk to close the tour to make it easier for us to take the elevators up and down inside the prison. For the next ninety minutes, we had a private tour of every level, our guide sharing equal amounts of Shawshank history and that of the prison itself. After returning to Columbus and checking into our hotel, I made sure to connect my dad’s iPad to the Wi-Fi so he could play his online golf game. Regular routine has become an important part of his life, and the golf game is a big part of that routine. In fact, when I first asked him if he would like to go to another Buckeyes game, the first thing he asked was, “Will I be able to play my golf game?” Once he finished that day’s round, I drove him over to the Ohio State campus to watch the band rehearse. I could tell he was tired, but he seemed to enjoy the experience, tapping his hand in time with the beat. The following day, we arrived on campus three hours prior to kickoff. We were fortunate enough to grab one of the last parking spaces before the handicap lot was completely full. I wheeled him inside St. John Arena, where the band holds its skull session prior to every home game—a pep rally where the band plays a few songs, the football team...
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